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You Cannot Think Your Way Out of an Eating Disorder
Recovery Is a Neurobiological Process — Not an Intellectual One This blog post, which is specifically geared towards women this time, addresses a certain type of woman who remains stuck the longest in their eating disorder. She is accomplished. Highly intelligent. Often professionally successful. She understands psychology. She understands trauma. She understands nervous system regulation. She can articulate her patterns with remarkable clarity. And yet — the ED behaviors rem
Danie van Kay
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“I want to recover, but I don’t want to gain weight.”
No shit. No one does. That’s the thing. This sentence is often treated like a contradiction; something you’re supposed to resolve before you’re allowed to move forward. But it isn’t a moral problem or a mindset issue. It’s the sound of a brain and nervous system responding to prolonged threat. And we all experience it, even when we logically know we're suppressing our natural body weight. When restriction continues over time, the brain does not simply register “less food.” I
Danie van Kay
4 min read
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